You have a first date quickly coming up, and you would like to score big time. The first thing you need to do is make the first move.
If making the first move makes you more anxious than the actual date itself then you probably require a swift primer on first date etiquette.
This article will not merely assist you on having a fun time on your first date, but also illustrates that the first move will go off without a problem. You may get a hug, a kiss, or you might even score big time.
Obviously, scoring could mean different things to various people. It might be an indication of a second date, a second much longer kiss goodnight, or it may involve, ahem. 😉
Nevertheless, here are the tips that will help you score big time! Also, remember to grab breath mints, gentlemen!
Equip Yourself With An Advantage By Taking Care Of Yourself
You will find that the process of making the first move on a first date a much smoother endeavor if you make an effort to actually groom and dress thoroughly. So go outside and get a great haircut, go workout in a gym, shave or just trim your facial hair and ensure that your shoes are free from wear and tear.
Remember to trim your nails, put on a little bit of deodorant and prepare to enjoy the night of your life.
There are two benefits that can be attained by caring for your own appearance. The first benefit is that your date is much more likely to want to get closer to you when you are smelling fresh and looking better. More importantly, you will feel a lot better about yourself.
By enhancing your confidence, you are emerging to be a leader of men and making the first move will naturally become something you just do, not something you agonize about.
Plan The Perfect Night
Keep in mind that you will also feel better about yourself if you are prepared for what is to come. Take the initiative and be the man who plans the date, figures out where the two of you are going, and what you will be doing when you arrive there.
Plan something that is both fun and different. Or you may choose to go out to eat or grab your favorite coffee. Of course, this will depend on both of your personalities. However, the date should always be planned if you aspire to make the first move effortlessly.
Never Wait Too Long To Make The First Move
The first move will become much simpler if your first date is kept short. Aim for approximately 30 to 45 minutes. This way neither of you will grow bored and hopefully you may progress from getting to know the girl to getting your groove on.
The following will help you achieve this:
Making Your Move When The Time Is Right
If both of you are having a good time, if the conversation is moving nicely and at least one of you is laughing and amused, then that’s the ideal time to say goodbye to each other. Why? Because on a first date, you should always quit when you are ahead. Doing this will grant you both something to look forward to in the future. This means having equally if not just as much fun on the second date. It’s when your first date is going to end that you should make the first move.
The best way to make the first move is simply to go for it. Move in for the hug and then be sure to lean back casually for the kiss. If the girl hugs you, rarely will she deny your kiss, especially if you two just had an awesome time. Think about the hug as signifying a test. If you happen to pass the test, go in for the kiss.
You may also attempt kissing the side of her neck to see how she will react after the hug. You may be surprised to find out that she likes it. Observe her reaction.
Undeniably, if the date turns out badly, the first move is probably going to not end up in your favor. In other words, not too great for you. Nonetheless, if there is agreement, laughter, and satisfying conversation, you merely need to go in for the hug to see how she feels about you.
Make Plans For The Second Date
If you are fortunate enough to have made the first move and it goes well on the very first date, plan for another date.
Obviously, in some cases, the first move will not end the first date, it will only extend it for longer periods of time. In those occurrences, anything can happen.
The key thing to take away from here is that everything starts with a single move and now you know precisely how to make it.